I am heterosexual man, which i don’t and should not specify since the point in this post has nothing to do with it, but for some reason i find it important for certain individuals who might read this to know this. I have finally realized the horrible reality that there are many ignorant people who do no accept gay marriage. As i’ve said before these individuals are a cancer to our society and always will.
I ask myself why gay marriage is such an issue. Now after understanding it, i understand why it is to the LGBT. I spoke to many people, and they have used example which are to the fullest ignorant and unthoughtful, like:
“Why do gays want to be married?, cant they just be together?”
I obviously answer to them, “why do you want to be married?”
Some either avoid the question or say “because i love her.” This is a great answer how does this differ from any marriage? Marriage is nothing but union of two people who love one another (although no always). How does this not apply to gays or any other two people. Gays fight for equal benefits of those who are heterosexual couples. So in this sense they’re not fighting to be considered “married” but two have the same civil union benefits as a married couple.
Today i spoke to a person who said “can’t they just be around without getting married?” i said, “they can, but if they choose to create a civil union with one another why is it bad?”
They also say “Why would i want to see two married guys kissing in a restaurant?”
First above all this is the stupidest question i have ever heard in my life, if a gay is to show personal display of affection in public then they will even in they are married or not. Personally in my life i have never seen a gay man or couple make out in sickening ways in public or in private. I have seen sick expressions of love like french kissing, hugging, etc. in heterosexual couples in public. This if its through gay or heterosexual affair would not matter if your children saw, they are both wrong.
“Well gays get human rights, what more do they want?” i simply say equal marriage recognition. thats all so if they get 99.9% of all the rights they just want that 00.1% they have not earned yet.
One of them said, “Well make special area for them so they can kiss and what not, cuz i don’t want to be in front of them in a restaurant.” I think, then go another one, just cause they are married or not doesn’t mean they will kiss in public… if you don’t like it, then move across restaurant. I told him this. “Why make special area for them?” i said, “why not put, ‘Colored People Table/Section?’” of course the use of this example i must and had to re-edit is not as to a degree of race, but to put the point across that discrimination should be imposed on any individual for anything different about them. The movement for equality might be and has been greater for race, but human rights movements are also and will be part of the LGBT community also.
Most and all “anti-gay” arguments are based on illogical assumption, which to me only proves that the individual lacks a sense of logic or is simply ignorant. Every human has the right to be recognized for any union of an individual. Since i find no malice in gay rights, or marriage. Let that be known.
What do you think? Id like to hear both “anti and pro” gay arguments if you agree or not. I wish for comments or questions.